While I was away on a business trip my daughter was bullied. She received a letter in the mail that was quite disturbing. This really woke me up and I got more involved in her school and her circle of friends. As painful and eye opening as it was, it was a gift. My involvement in her schooling lead us to put her in a private Christian school that demonstrated the same principles that we have. I read a book called Reviving Ophelia- and discovered that raising girls in this day and age is a very serious and delicate proposition. We have always emphasized loving people as a top priority. This was an example of the Law of Polarity- there is always a good side to everything bad.